In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a 1 woman woman!!! I don't share & I won't allow 2 be shared (i.e. My partner and I) ... The very intimate and beautiful space that we share .. that would be ours alone!!!
Profiles & pic's r misleading! Most profiles: I'm loyal, I'm honest, caring, ... mmm!!!
So here's me: Am I attractive? If I didn't think so I'd advertise on radio or in the newspaper.
Do I have a gorgeous body? Hell no, am EVER so slightly overweight and for some reason god had a sense of humour with me, not everything is equal, exact or in proportion - but I'm 100% woman (no slant 2 anyone less fortunate).
My faults? (A debate: ur perceived faults or mine?) Let's go with general/mine. Hell absolutely! I'm lazy, I believe in conspiracy theories, have an MD in procrastination, hate washing dishes, hate folding clothes, I smoke, I drink, I enjoy a good party. Acknowledging a problem is 50% of the battle won RIGHT?! Am I prepared to do anything about it? I hire help - As for the rest, let's debate.
Do I have baggage? We all do!!! But mine is in a case on-top of my cupboard - just to remind me of lessons learnt!
Am l a loyal & good friend? I'll invite u - ask my close friends? (there r only a few) They'll tell the truth!... I love them to bits, so you'll have to make space for them - cos they're always gonna be there and if u don't like them - just know I won't abandon them, they have never abandoned me - that is what friendship and loyalty is all about.
Do I have a profile pic? What's with this? What's worse? A person chatting 2u when they don't know what u look like, u show them a photo, they stop chatting to you ... or u have a photo and u chat and they don't chat back after 1st contact??? Or u chat without photo and meet and never hear from them again ... THIS IS ME in the photo - Profile pic was taken at CT pride this year - ok shades are never good, but my other photo's r taken over the last few +-4 years. And yes I'm still the same person.
Do I want to hear from you? Hell why not!
About Her Ideal Match
My type ... your type ... this is subjective. I cannot prescribe or ascribe - my opinion of myself versus your percception of me may be completely different and vice versa. While I appreciate this website is trying to bring "like minded" people together or help you meet your īdeal match", it negates the NB issue of "chemistry". I ain't no science boffin, but I do understand that for chemistry to happen - two elements have to be in close physical proximaty of each other for any reaction to occur - good or bad. So unless we go out there and make meetings possible, there will be no chemistry. And what about that addage that opposites attract??? Ok that's my use it or lose it thought for the day :)
But if you would press me for an answer then ... For those just networking and wanting to make new friends:
I am a social, spontaneous, impromptu kinda person. Life is what happens while you are making plans! So if you have a last minute impromptu idea ... Call me! If you want someone who will go out and have some fun ... curve balls and all ... call me ...if you want a dress up party and scared no one will dress up ... call me. I tend to make the most of every opportunity or experience I am given or have. Oh and I love unplanned road trips!
In terms of a partner: I would quote the words of a song ... I cannot describe it better!
I want somebody to share, share the rest of my life, share my innermost thoughts, know my most intimate details,
She will listen to me, when I want to speak about the world we live in and life in general. Though my views may be wrong, they may even be perverted, she will hear me out and wont easily be converted to my way of thinking, in fact she will often disagree.
But at the end of it all she will understand me, she will hold me closely and kiss me tenderly .......... aaaahhhhhhhaaaaaa ........ Somebody ... by Depeche Mode. (ok there is a bit of impromptu there)
Of course add to that love, romance, passion and a whole lotta fun and adventure!
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (CBD), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Curly; Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
HIV Status: |
Negative |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Movie Channels; News; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Volleyball; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using QueerBuzz Women: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |